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💫 Coming Back to Myself (One Quiet Moment at a Time)
There are some days — maybe even weeks — where everything just feels flat. Not bad. Not dramatic. Just… blank.Nothing sparks joy, excitement, or even interest. The playlists sound dull, the projects feel pointless, and even the things you usually love don’t hit right. And in the middle of all that you realise: “I don’t…
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💿 Disney Stimmy Bops: Volume 1
We all have those songs that make our brain do a happy little dance – the kind that hit just right, whether you’re belting them in the shower or vibing in your pyjamas at 2am. For me, a solid dose of Disney is instant comfort, nostalgia, and dopamine. So I’ve made the ultimate Disney Stimmy…
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Myron Is Turning Me Into a Geek (And Honestly? I Kinda Love It)
I used to be safe. Protected. Free from the clutches of superheroes, comic book lore, and grown adults arguing about which Spider-Man was best. And then… I met Myron. Well — re-met. Fell back in love. And somewhere between quoting The Inbetweeners and planning our future, I realised something had shifted. This man has turned…
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“We Deserved Better”: How Sex Education Failed Autistic Teens
Growing up autistic, there were a lot of things I had to figure out on my own — things that neurotypical kids seemed to just know. One of the biggest? Sex, relationships, and boundaries. Like many people my age, I got the standard school sex ed: a slideshow about STIs, a few awkward lessons on…
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✨ Top 5 Stimmy Bops (AKA: Songs That Slap So Hard They Make Me Flap) ✨
If you’ve spent more than five minutes with me, you’ve probably heard me say “This is a stimmy bop” at least once. Music has always been a safe, joyful space for me — and certain songs hit that sweet spot where I can’t help but flap, bounce, spin, or sing at full volume (yes, even…
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🎶 The Happy Goosebump Playlist: Songs That Spark Joy in My Bones
Some songs just hit. Not in the sad way, not in the heartbreak way — but in the “suddenly I’m dancing in my room and grinning like a maniac” way. They send a tingle up your arms, maybe make your chest feel like it’s about to burst with glitter. That, my friends, is the power…
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💞 What It’s Like Being the Most Important Person in Someone’s Life
There’s a moment — and it’s usually quiet, unexpected, and completely overwhelming — when it hits you: I’m someone’s person. Not just liked. Not just tolerated. Not just “oh yeah, she’s sweet.” But loved. Prioritised. Chosen. That someone, for me, is Myron. I still don’t quite know what I did to deserve that kind of…
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The Origins of Amber & Jonas
Believe it or not, the first draft of what would eventually become Amber and Jonas was written way back in 2018. I was a totally different person back then – for one I didn’t have my EbyE job (which I think has changed me for the better). I was also in the thick of one…
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✨ Why I Wish Amber & Jonas Was My First Work (No Offence, Rainbow Balloons) ✨
Some people say “you never forget your first.” In writing? I kinda wish I could… but I can’t, because mine was called Rainbow Balloons. 🎈 Yep. That was the name of my first ever story. And listen — I love her, I do. She was colourful, dramatic, full of feelings and Very Big Themes. But…
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✨ Juggling Myron, Meetings & Meltdowns: My Life as a Neurospicy Creative Human ✨
Let’s be real — being autistic and juggling anything is already a full-time job. But here I am, trying to balance three major things: Some days I’m thriving. Other days I’m crying over reheated pasta while Daisy screams in my head. That’s just the vibe. 💕 The Relationship Bit Myron is the calm to my…
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